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Leading Vs Controlling: What A Man Leading In A Relationship Looks Like RLS

The video explores the difference between being a leader and being a controller in a relationship. The speaker emphasizes that a leader should take care of their partner's needs and must have empathy, perspective, and the willingness to sacrifice for the benefit of their partner. He highlights that a leader must be in servitude of their partner rather than being a boss or a dictator, and this involves putting their partner's needs before their own. In contrast, controllers do not consider their partner's needs and only care about themselves. The speaker advises against being manipulative or abusive and encourages people to learn from negative experiences.

“How Do I Let My Man Lead In My Relationship” FTG Ep.46

In this YouTube video, the hosts discuss different aspects of submission in a relationship, with personal experiences and advice for alpha females. They suggest that submission is not about softening or being submissive, rather about trusting your partner, having shared goals, and focusing on building trust. The hosts also emphasize the importance of finding a trustworthy partner, having self-awareness, and communicating effectively. Lastly, they invite viewers to write in with any questions or concerns about their relationship.

"How Much Of Your Past Should You Reveal When Dating?" RLS Ep.51

The hosts of the Real Love Show discuss the topic of revealing past relationships when dating. They emphasize that while honest communication is important, not all details of one's past need to be revealed in a new relationship. Oversharing can introduce unnecessary insecurities and problems. They recommend focusing on how a person's past has shaped them as a way to better understand them in a relationship and to consider the impact of sharing the information on the current relationship. They also stress the importance of moving forward and not dwelling on the past in order to grow and develop as a couple.

““All My Friends Are Having Kids & Only Want “Mommy Friends” Now”” FTG Ep.50

The video discusses the challenges of maintaining friendships between those with and without children. The speakers acknowledge that people with children tend to gravitate towards others in similar situations as they can relate better, but they give advice on making new friends by finding common interests and not limiting oneself to those with children. They emphasize the importance of intentionality in maintaining friendships that stand the test of time no matter what phase in life one is in. The hosts also discuss the importance of "mommy friends" and offer advice on how to navigate friendships with mommy friends who only have time for other mommy friends. They suggest finding new friends in addition to current ones who are in the same space and can relate. Lastly, they advise finding mom groups to join, even if they have to be virtual, as it can provide a sense of community and support.

“I Put My Credit On The Line For Him & It Went Wrong...What Do I Do?” FTG Ep.47

On "FTG Ep.47," the hosts advise a listener who invested in land with her boyfriend and ended up in consumer debt to have clear guidelines and contracts when doing an investment outside of direct family and to put assets in a business name rather than personal name. They praise the listener's boyfriend for being supportive and willing to work towards a solution and suggest being more cognizant of risk tolerance to become a better and more strategic investor. They emphasize the importance of trust and accountability within the relationship and not submitting to financial risks that feel uncomfortable. The hosts urge the listener not to dwell on resentment and to communicate openly and forgive her partner, as well as herself, while setting boundaries and working together to fix their shared financial problems.

Key Advice When Dating!! Maintaining Your Value! RLS

In the video titled "Key Advice When Dating!! Maintaining Your Value! - RLS", the speaker emphasizes the significance of valuing oneself in a relationship. They suggest that if a relationship is based on taking advantage of one person, it's essential to leave that relationship since it reduces one's value. The speaker also provides an analogy that highlights how allowing someone to take advantage of oneself can lead to damage, reducing one's worth. Therefore, one must be passionate about maintaining their standards and not settle for anything less than what they deserve.

“How Do I Deal With A Stalker In My Relationship?” FTG Ep.44

In this YouTube video, the hosts discuss a situation where a woman is dealing with a stalker in her relationship. They caution against getting involved with someone in the workplace and stress the importance of setting boundaries and taking threats seriously. They advise that a partner should take necessary action to ensure their significant other's comfort, and if not, it's a big red flag that something is off. The hosts emphasize the importance of being cautious and selective of the people you share your phone numbers with and the danger of stalkers. They discuss the legal options for dealing with a stalker in a relationship, including obtaining a restraining order, but caution that there needs to be proof of potential harm for the order to stick. Overall, they emphasize the importance of taking any signs of stalking seriously and taking steps to protect oneself.

“How To Know If Someone Is Ghosting Or Genuinely Busy?" FTG Ep.39

The video "How To Know If Someone Is Ghosting Or Genuinely Busy?" on FTG Ep.39 explores personal experiences with being ghosted, warning signs of someone who is not interested in a relationship, and strategies for recovering from being ghosted. The speakers emphasize the importance of recognizing red flags in a relationship to prevent being ghosted. They encourage building healthy relationships by being mindful, learning from past experiences, and focusing on consistent behavior in dating. They also advise on how to recover from being ghosted, including self-reflection and focusing on goals and passions.

"How Can I Keep Conflict & Communication Issues From Destroying My Relationship?" RLS Ep.42

In this episode, the hosts of the podcast discuss various aspects of effective communication in a relationship. They emphasize the importance of understanding each other's communication style and language to avoid misinterpretation, taking responsibility for one's feelings and reactions, and approaching conflict as an opportunity to work together instead of oppositional situations. They also advise addressing fundamental differences early on and not brushing off negative experiences to prevent resentments and damage to the relationship. The hosts highlight the significance of customer service skills in resolving conflicts and suggest focusing on finding a solution that satisfies the other person rather than engaging in arguments. Finally, they stress the importance of apologizing and effective communication during moments of conflict to prevent communication issues from becoming destructive.

“Should I Do His Laundry Just Because He Pays The Bills?” FTG Ep.37

The hosts of the For the Gram podcast discuss the importance of open communication and compromise in relationships, specifically in regards to traditional gender roles and household responsibilities. They share their personal experiences and emphasize that every relationship is different, but ultimately, it should be a choice made freely by both parties and not enforced as a strict gender role. They suggest that couples need to have conversations about roles and expectations, and to set clear boundaries and expectations. The hosts also caution against auditioning for marriage and stress the importance of evaluating whether a partner is the right fit.